Allright, I saw "Secret" and "My Sassy Girl", these two movies fall under the drama/romance genre.
Actually MY Sassy Girl has a Pre Sequal called Windstruck. Which I saw a while ago.
These 3 movies have touched me, a lot... I just had to write it down. It's late, and I am preparing for bed, but before I go... I must just say some words.
The topic is LOVE.

I always felt sad if the girl I love, don't love me back. Now my situations is that I don't know if the one I love, loves me back.  I don't dare to ask, but I got it pretty much clear what she thinks of me. However, you never know until you ask.
Well back to what I wanted to say. Which was that I learned, that if you love someone, it means you are prepared to sacrafice yourself, just to make the one you love happy, even if it means that you will have to sacrifice your love and your happiness.
If the girl / guy you love, loves someones else, then you should be happy, that she / he is happy. That is really hard, but that's what love is all about. Sacrifice yourself to make the person you love happy.
This might sound harsh, but who told you that love doesn't hurt?... learn from the song "Love Hurts"... not that I know the lyrics, but the title says it all. Everyone can't get happy, that's life. Move on, and try become happy.

After I realised all this, I don't feel that sad anymore, instead, I will try make her happy. Even if that means, I wont be happy, even if it means I wont get what I want. Throw away my selfishness, and focus on her happiness. Since if she is happy, then I will be happy for her, that at least one of us can get what they want.

So love is about sacrifices, throwing away your selfishness, and not try make yourself happy and satisfied, but make the one you love happy, that's TRUE love. If you cant sacrifice everything for the one you love, then it's not true love. If you arn't prepared to take a bullet instead, which means prepared to die for your love, then it just means that you are not ready and that you dont love the person, you just like them, but you don't love them.
It's a huge difference about like someone and love someone.
So next time you say "I love you", think it through, so you wont end up saying a complete lie!

I hate people who throw out the love like it was something common and meaningless. Love is deep, love is something special, so don't wear it out, since it's a word you want to tell someone that really means the WORLD for you. A person, you are prepared to die for...

Sorry to ruin that excellent ending line, but I must post this, a poem I wrote 2 years ago. I wrote about love, without realising the big meaning of it, but the poem speaks for itself. I always knew what true love is, just that my selfishness of being happy blocked the true meaning.

Poem written by: Filip, Original title: The Secrets of the Dark side of my soul
New title: True Love

The Dark way I choose to walk
Just to search for the light
To reach my goal, the happy soul
Like a moth I live in the Dark,
always ready to die for the light

But will I strike?
Will I go for the light?
Even if my goal is to reach the light,
will I be able to take the chance?
To kill the fear, to overpass the Sorrow
Will I be brave enough to die for what I am looking for?

The answer I seek is yes
So I am counting slowly to ten
And then take the chance and die
Because some things are worth dying for

I have reached the light,
reached the soul,
reached the end of my journey
I have taken the chance
Now my destiny is to die,
Die like a moth who have reached the light
Reached the goal they have been looking for

Live in the dark and searching for the dangerous light
That is my life and my death

Goodbye my love,
you are the light,
you are the hope,
you are my happy soul
you are the one I am dying for